
Ahh where to start...
Ty got home Sat June 10. I got a message on my phone while I was at work, so I called him back at lunch. They got in at like 7 am. He asked what time I was done working - I told him 6 pm. He said he'd come over. I raced home, tried to do a bit of last minute redding up and waited, I didn't even stop for milk on the way home because I wasn't sure how soon he'd show up. I thought maybe I'd take him out to eat or something.
After waiting a while, I thought I'd take the risk of running to the closest grocery store & along with the milk we needed, pick up something to cook for us for supper & just hang out here together. I left the front door unlocked, took my cell and went shopping real quick. I raced home and started to make some spaghetti with italian sausage in the sauce, garlic bread & I'd bought a pound cake. I cooked. And I waited. And I waited. As it got past 9 pm, I texted Ty. I told him I had to be up at 5:30 am for work and I'd be going to bed within 2 hours. I waited about another hour and went to bed sometime after 10. Sad, disappointed and, yes, hurt.
Sunday I went to work and I was still sad. He called and left a msg that he'd fallen asleep and would scome over when I got home from work. Which he did & we ate the supper I'd made the night before. First thing he did though was jump on the computer & check out MySpace. I put in the CD from Ft Benning turning blue & graduation. He seemed to enjoy seeing some of the faces and seeing the Bradleys. We talked and hugged and he left after about 2 hours, somewhere around 8 pm. Gabby was at some family dinner with her Grandma and I guess she was available after 8. It was wonderful to see him & I took a few pics. His hair was long and he had it all gelled and spikey- cute! He and Travis had worked on the car replacing a headlight. He said he & Gabby were supposed to go get the marriage license Monday. I told him I'd taken Monday off if he needed a ride anywhere.
Didn't hear anything from him Monday so that was a big waste of taking an extra day off. But Tuesday we had plans to go to Kennywood, so I figured at least I had an extra day of rest. Wednesday we were planning to take him shooting. After Wednesday I'd have no more time off for the rest of his leave. I thought he was staying til the 20th, a Tuesday, which was my regular day off. So I had assumed I'd be available to see him off & say goodbye, so I figured that would be ok. I'd see him Tues & Wed, he;d have plenty of time on the weekend to see friends, and opportunities during the week to do what he & Gabby had to do (get married maybe?) He had a wedding band, and he said she has one too, but no definite plans. Drives me crazy! Anyways, he told me he had to be BACK on the 20th, so I was bummed. If I'd known, I'd have taken NEXT Monday off so I could see him his last day & go to the airport. (Gabby had already arranged for her dad to pick them up when they arrived here - no need for me) So now I'm feeling screwed - I figure maybe Sunday night I will see him, if he's leaving Monday. I am off at 4 Sundays, and work 1:30 - 10:30 Monday. Not likely I'd be able to go to the airport unless he left very early Monday.
So Tuesday we go to Kennywood. We were going to leave at noon. Then Travis said he has school til 12:30 so we agree to leave at one. Then when I spoke with Holly, she said maybe she'd come later after work, and Travis decided to do that too. So now we are back to leaving at noon. Then Ty calls and says he has to pick Travis up from school so we are back to leaving at one. I asked him if they'd gotten the marriage license - no. I asked him if everything was ok - grunt. Do you not WANT to talk about or you CAN'T talk about it right now ? grunt. Ok I drop it. Bob & I get to Wayne's about 12:45. Ty comes back wwith Travis. I ask him if we are ready - no, we are waiting on Gabby. Where is she? She's at her sister's. Okkk when will she be ready? I dunno, she'll call when she gets home. Now I'm fuming a bit. I have been waiting and waiting and feeling jerked around and I have NO idea how far Gabby's sister's houes is or if she's left yet or when the hell we might finally get to go. I was a bit crabby at this point. I said to Travis ya tell her we are leaving at one and she should be ready at one.
As it turns out we didn't wait that long, it was maybe 1:30 when she called. Then, instead of us all piling in the car to pick her up and go on our way, he has to go pick her up and bring her back. Well the 2 of them looked like we were going to death row or something when they came back. I was thinking wow this looks like it will be a fun day. Things got better in the car, though. Ty drove. He said he spent $50 on gas and he planned to use every bit of it while he was home. I have no idea how he had money for a headlight and gas and what all when we'd sent him $250 for the trip home because he was saying he was going to borrow from someone on base after the first $250 we sent went to repair the jeep. And of course within hours of sending that money (our savings for a house down paymnet fund) the stinking dryer broke and cost us a couple hundred more.
So anyways we had big fun at Kennywood. Tyler had me cracking up on some of the rides. He wore his ACU's and people kept looking at him. I wore my PAM shirt. Of course I had to have a picture taken. I also took a disposable camera, which Gabby took halfway through the day and I've no idea what kind of pics she took. Those 2 wrestled and slapped and pinched and punched each other all day long. I think they were sexually frustrated..I dunno. We rode every roller coaster, the bumper cars, flying carpet, and more. Bob & Ty rode this flippy thing and me & Gabby saw Ty's dogtags looking like they'd fall off him! Holly showed up around 7 maybe with a whole gang of her friends. She said hi and took off for the rest of the night. We finally found Travis a bit after that. He and Patrice went on a few rides with us four, then ran into somone they knew and took off. My whole idea had been for Holly & Travis to spend some time with Ty & Gabby. That's why I bought Tj's ticket - that plan sure fell through...we had potato patch fries and watched a really bad magic show and later had ice cream. All in all it was a really fun day. We left them alone for a bit before we left for the night.
We ended up back at Wayne's. Ty & Gabby made some drinks in the kitchen (I think, we heard the blender anyways) and I didn't see hide nor hair of them again. We talked with Wayne a while & left. No goodbye, thanks, nothing. Ah well, no biggie...they are alone & in loooooooove.
So Wednesday we sleep in a bit. Bob & I had both been spending time searching and searching for a place to go shooting with Ty since they closed the gun club last week, I was so upset about that. Could have waited one darn week and not ruined our plans lol! I guess it was about 2 oclock Bob and Ty talked on the phone and he gave Ty 2 options, an indoor range where we could rent any kind of gun, or outdoor gameland where we could shoot what we have. He told Ty to pick what he wanted to do and call us back. After an hour or more, we decided to go look at this house we'd seen online. Took our cells and figured if Ty called we could get back home in 20-30 minutes. Hours more went by and no call from Ty. So it's like 7pm and we decided to stop and eat on the way home. Just before we are served, Ty calls. He fell asleep. By now it's too late to go either place. Gamelands close at dusk, the indoor range at 10 and it's an hour drive. By the time we'd eat and get him picked up and all, it would be after 8. So Wednesday was a waste. That was my last day off.
Thursday I heard nothing. Friday I texted Ty and asked if he got married yet and told him the hours I would be working Saturday & Sunday. Saturday heard nothing. It is now Sunday. I called Ty on my lunch at 12. I told him I had Bob's phone (I'd forgotten mine, Bob worked 16 hours and left at 7 so gave me his phone we he stopped by my desk). He said he was on his way to church. I said ok well do you have any idea what time you're leaving? Then all I heard was some noise then "Talk to you later I love you goodbye" and he hung up. After I got home I texted him to again let him know I had Bob's phone (so he'd know to call me on that number) and again asked when he was leaving. That was probably 6 pm or so. It is now 10 minutes to 10. Not a word.
So I guess I will just get up tomorrow and go to work and not see my son again for a year. I have no idea if they got married, I have no idea when he's leaving. I am hurt and sad and half of me wants to be so angry with him. But then I don't want to leave things on thi awful note. For crissakes I'm his mother. I am not going to write what I really want to say. It just sucks...